motivational story~_~,

~THE 4WIFES~

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(a ricH merChant)

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There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies. He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best.

He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He's very proud of her and always wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men.

He too, loved his 2nd wife. She is a very considerate person, always patient and in fact is the merchant's confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times.

Now, the merchant's 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.

One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself, "Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll be!"

Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th wife and she walked away without another word.

The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant's heart. The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No!" replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here! I'm going to remarry when you die!" The merchant's heart sank and turned cold.

He then asked the 2nd wife, "I always turned to you for help and you've always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!" replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave." The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated.

Then a voice called out : "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go." The merchant looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said, "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have !"

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Actually, we all have 4 wives in our lives

a. The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it'll leave us when we die.

b. Our 3rd wife ? Our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they all go to others.

c. The 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we're alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.

d. The 1st wife is in fact our soul, often neglected in our pursuit of material, wealth and sensual pleasure.

* sedarkah kita??

Astaghfirullah~~

from doc,

di golongan manakah kita??

salam alaik semua.

selamat riadah sambil kutip ilmu~~

huhu:)

erm,

bagi orang mukmin itu ada 3 tanda yng menjadi ciri khasnya:

1.melakukan solat

2.berpuasa

3.berzakat

bagi orang munafik ada pula 3 tnda2 :

1. pura-pura syg apbila berhadapan,

2. memfitnah di belakang,

3. girang apabila orang lain mendpt musibah.

bagi orang zalim pula ada 3 ciri2nya :

1. menggagahi org bawahannya dgn kekerasan

2. orang diatasnya dgn kedrhakaan

3. melahirkan kezalimannya dgn keterangan

bagi orang riya' ada 3 tandanya:

1. rajin apabila berada di hdpn mata orang ramai

2. malas apabila bersendirian

3. ingin dipuji untuk semua perkara.

bagi orang malas ada 3 tanda :

1. menunda-nunda waktu samapai sia2

2. mensia-siakan waktu sampai luput

3. melalaikannya sampai berdosa.

* di petik dari novel : Titian Nabi karya M.Masykur A.R SAid

intihanya,

moga2 kita tergolong dalam orang mukmin yang sentiasa diredhai oleh Allah~

aminnn..insya-Allah

renung2kan dan slmt beramal:)

::if you can dream it, you can do it..~::

sharing is loving^_*~

assalamualaikum sahabat2..

agak sudah lama xhupdate blog yep~huhu~

mklum la...bz ng pogram ijzah thn ni..

bse la~~ awl2, kne push usaha sket..bru dtg kejayaan,

bak kata pepetah: kejayaan xdatang bergolek..

hatta kejayaan i2 pon kte xnampak,

cam ne la nk bergolek tbe2..kekeke:)

maka,

sementelahan i2

di sini yep, saya nak refresh akal kite yep..

kerana,

akal yang sihat itu datang dr jiwa yang tenang....yup~~

haa...lalu, dpt membentuk kemantapan

dalam diri kita yeeep..ahha..

sooo,

dalam hidup kita ni kdg2 kita terlupa mengamalkan

sunnah nabi..kn kn ???

mgkin krn kurang biasa, tidak biasa atau biasa2 je..:)

justeru itu, ni la nak sharing la sikit pasal adab2 tido...

antaranya :

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1. sebelum tidoq, amik wuduk dulu..

pastikan kita slt sunat taubat dan slt sunat witir iaitu amln Rasulullah.

2. membaca surah As-Sajdah dan surah Al-Mulk.

ini krn Rasulullah SAW tidak dapat tido slgi xmembaca 2 surah ini.

Mafhum hadis, "Barangsiapa mbaca surah Al-Mulk stiap malam,

maka ia akan diselamatkan dari siksa kubur".

3. kipaskan tmpt tidur 3 kali dari kanan ke kiri dan bacalah:

"la haula wala quwwata illa billahil 'aliyil 'azim"

4. kalau hndak mudah bangun tahajjud, baca surah Al-Kahfi ayat 107-110.

niat utk bgun, tp lw xjage, kite stil dpt pahala thajud:)

5. baca doa sblm tido..

6. tidur ikot sunnah nabi iaitu mghadap kiblat.

ada lagi adab2 nye...tapi elok lah kita perbaiki ape yng kurang dulu,

kmdian amalkan selebihnya dalam khidupan seharian...

Insya-Allah~~~

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*psstt:

rase cam baik plak ari nie

sbb wat n3 sal ni...heheh:P

xpela,,,bukan selaloooo...kn kn ???hheee:)

kite cube ape yng termampu~~huhu...

smoga hari ni memberi manfaat pada anda sume

utk kita sama2 perbaiki kekurangan diri sndirik~~~

last but not least,

renung-renungkan dan slmt beramal:)~~

~~sesungguhnya solatku,

ibadahku,

hidupku dan matiku

hanyalah utk-MU

ya Tuhanku~~

~azzikriee~